Inspirational Stories

ACFS has helped to bring 8100+ new souls into the world. Over the years, we have received thousands of thank you notes from patients expressing their gratitude and appreciation. So many of them are really “letters of inspiration” and hope for all the future pregnancies that are yet to come. All the thank you letters are so appreciated, but none of them come close to the “thank you” that we all can see in the faces of the proud new parents who bring their miracles of science and joy in to meet us at ACFS.

Jay,

We wanted to write and try to put into words the most amazing experience of our lives, which you and your staff have afforded us. As we started trying to put this into words, we found ourselves searching and searching to find words to describe our gratitude. Sure we can say thank you over and over, but it does not even come close to describe our feelings.

We came to you with a dream, and you made that dream come true. Through all the trials and tribulations we experienced you gave us hope. In our times of doubt and frustration, you gave us answers. And through your passion, education, and experience you gave us our son.

This has been the most amazing experience of our lives. Getting to feel Asher move around in me and knowing that it is Stacy's genes, and my body keeping him alive was truly AMAZING. This has brought us both so much closer and we thank God for you guys everyday for being such miracle workers.

We cannot stop looking at Asher, he is truly a blessing and a true miracle. And, because of you and your staff, he is in this world. Thank you does not seem to capture the magnitude of gratefulness, but, from the bottom of, our now three, hearts, we thank-you. You gave us our miracle and truly made us feel apart of your family not just patients.

We look forward to starting this journey all over again, and having three more miracles. Yes, I said three more.

With all our love,

Susan, Stacy and Asher
April 2010

YOUR PRECIOUS KINDNESS

by David, Stacey and Debbie (the gestational carrier)
A thank you note to Gina, ACFS IVF nurse coordinator

"The love of your job shows in everything that you do. We feel extremely blessed to have been brought to you. We came to this office with hope in our hearts and we leave with joy and sadness as we part. Joy because we leave with our children on the way. Sadness because to you it's goodbye we have to say. You will always be considered part of our family. Because of you a chance at parenthood we can finally see. Your encouragement and caring will always be treasured. Without a doubt we can say to know you has been OUR pleasure. You give so many people the joys that they may have never known. For that I truly hope our gratitude we have shown. You will always hold a special place in our hearts. And we will never forget this special time of which you were a part."

2001

"Well hello to our favorite,

Yes, we decided to do the cord blood. We had heard that the cells die off and it's really only good for a few years. So, we just didn't want to keep something stored if it was not going to be any good.

You're welcome for the invite, we sure hope to see you there. This has been the most amazing experience of my life. Feeling this little muffin move around in me and knowing that it is Stacy's genes and my body keeping him alive is AMAZING. This has brought us both so much closer and we thank God for you guys everyday for being such miracle workers :-)

It's so crazy to think we are only two months away from him being here. Then you guys will get to see us all over again, as Stacy plans to go a couple months after Asher is born. :-).

Tell everyone hello for us and we miss you very much. Tell Dr. Jay we said hello as well, and we just love you guys.

Talk soon :-)"

Susan and Stacy
2009

Greetings from Tennessee!
from Jennifer and Scott

"I recall the first ever phone conversation I had with Gina. She spent over an hour explaining every detail of the transfer process to me. Every time I called the office, no matter who answered, they have always been polite and helpful. Scott and I were stunned at how much time Dr. Nemiro spent consulting with us. He is so friendly and approachable. After everyone adjusted schedules and plans for surgery, I witnessed Dr. Nemiro's passion and love for what he does. Your entire staff is compassionate and has a unique understanding for patients. Scott and I are thankful for each and every one of you. You've made this such a positive, memorable experience. We will plan a return visit in the future with the newest member of the family. Until then, thanks so much, and we'll keep you updated."

2009

"I've waited a long time to write you this thank you letter. I had to see for myself that this whole ordeal would work first. You were right, we stuck with it, and it did. As a woman who has always been afraid of male doctors and men with facial hair, I was surprised that we got along so well. I have respected you as a doctor and a person ever since our first consult in October 08. Having a health background has helped me in this process, but when I became a patient, all my knowledge went out the window and I learned to trust you. It didn't take long, I knew right away that you told us what we needed to hear in a way that got our attention and at the same time let us know that you cared and realized how difficult this was for us. Your combination of humor and knowledge is just what we needed to make it through this long road. During each IVF we were never worried knowing we were in your care. The second one meant the most to me. Eric had to leave the night of the egg retrieval and you came and talked with me while we figured out what to do to achieve the most embryos. My Mom was there, but I always thought you sensed that I needed someone there with me who understood every step of the process, also knowing Eric couldn't be there with me. It meant the world to me when you sat there in the bed next to me in post-op. You are the best doctor we have ever worked with Jay. Your compassion, knowledge, professionalism, humor and support have been an outstanding part of our journey with you. We are forever grateful that you are the doctor we chose for this incredible part of our lives. Thank you for everything."

Julie and Eric
2009

"Dr. Nemiro. I wanted to take a moment of my time to tell you what a wonderful, though very emotional experience I have had while working with you. After all you and your team have done for Susie and me, a letter of thanks is the least I could do in return. I remember the first day I met with you. You were so understanding and compassionate. Little did I know from that day forward, all I would receive was compassion, warm and friendly faces and a level of expertise I never realized existed. We have both been so impressed with ACFS, through every step of our journey. You helped us through the hard times, the tests, and trying and waiting. And you have shared the joys of the good times. When Jody called to tell us we were pregnant, the joy in her voice was so moving. Whether I called to make an appointment, ask a question, came in to see Gina or Sharon, or even to pay a bill- I have been met by smiles, support and encouragement. No one could have ever told me how happy I would be at ACFS. We are so excited about out little life one on the way. We hope and pray that all goes well. I know in my heart that would not have gotten here without you all. Having a baby is something that I have wanted for so long, but by the time I came to ACFS, I was emotionally tired and discouraged. You met my needs (which I know is very hard to do!) and helped me keep my dream alive and even better, made it a reality. For all of this and so much more, we both want to thank you."

Karin and Susie
2005

"Dear Dr. Nemiro. My deepest appreciation goes out to you and your staff for helping us achieve one of life's greatest gifts. On October 1st our son was born and he is living proof that there is life after breast cancer. We especially thank you for your understanding and support in our desire to become pregnant. As we sit here watching our sleeping child, we know the risk was worth the reward. You have made a huge difference in our lives and pray that you will continue to bring as much joy to many other families as you have brought to ours."

Mike and Audrea
10-13-04

"Dear Friends at ACFS. Thank you so much for all of the wonderful “TLC” you have given us over the last two years. You are all very special, and we will never forget your kindness and dedication. Those of us that experience infertility are so blessed to have such a fabulous facility to come to. It is so obvious that you truly care about each patient. Many thanks for all of the support you have given us. P.S. The cookies are little treat to remind you of how “sweet” you are!"

Laura and Bill
2006

"Dear Dr. Nemiro. We can't thank you enough for the quality of care and concern you and your staff provided to us. We had been trying for two years when we decided that we needed help. Going through fertility treatments was a very emotional time for us especially when our test results showed a high FSH. We tired to keep a positive attitude. Taking all factors into consideration we tried in vitro. We were very blessed with the result. You provided us encouragement and understanding while also being honest and realistic. You have a wonderful staff. We always felt that it was just as important to all of you as it was to us that we got pregnant. We will be forever grateful."

Susie and Mike
2002

"Dear Dr. Nemiro and staff. I would like to thank you for helping make a miracle happen. All I had ever dreamed of all my life was the time someone would call me “Mommy”. God has worked a miracle through you, by enabling this 48 year old woman to have a baby. And not only one but twins! Our lives have now been blessed by two little angels. Although not yet able to say “Mommy”, I catch myself just staring at their precious little faces in awe and wonderment. We are very thankful for your helping make their arrival a healthy and happy one. Not only are you the best, Dr. Nemiro; you have the best staff I have ever experienced. They were always kind, gentile and encouraging, especially when showing you how to give yourself a shot. That kind of atmosphere almost makes up for the sterility of infertility. I wish all of you the very best, and although the words never seem quite enough; thank you again."

Cathryn and George
2003

"Dear Jay. There are not enough words to express our appreciation for all you have done for us. You have made our dream of having children come true! I don't know how we can ever thank you enough for this special gift. You will always be a very important part of our lives and our children will grow up to know you as family! We knew that from the beginning of this journey you would take wonderful care of us and we couldn't have asked for more. You made this process so much easier for us and we feel so blessed for this chance. We love this baby more than you could imagine. It is truly an amazing feeling. Thank you again for sharing your gift with us."

Priscilla and Steve
2003

"Dear Dr. Nemiro and Staff. First let me begin by apologizing for not writing sooner. But after a C-section, 100's of diapers and sterilizing bottles; time seems to fly by fast, I seem to have lost track of time. I wanted to thank you for giving me hope after so many doctors had told me it was impossible for me to have a baby again. I had my baby girl exactly a year and two days after my reversal of tubal sterilization. I still cannot believe when I see her how wonderful it is to have her. I feel so lucky to have her. I really wanted to give my husband a child and with your help, here she is. My husband and I are so happy with her. My other 4 kids love her, they fight over how long they want ot hold her. I'm very grateful to have her. Thank you so much. I also wanted to thank your staff because they treat people as if they knew them before. They are kind and sweet. All of you treated me as if you knew what I as going through. Thank you so much."

Eva and Haider
2003

"Dr. Nemiro and staff (wonderful staff). We wanted to thank you for all that you have done for us. You have assisted in adding, not only one but two new additions to our family. You all helped make things as easy as possible and let us know ways to minimize our expenses when and where we were able to do so. These things made us realize you really cared about us as people and not just another statistic. We are so happy to have our children in our home. Thank you so very much, you were so friendly and kind, I will and have recommended you to others. Sincerely."

Dawn and David
2003

"Dear Dr. Nemiro. Words could never fully express our gratitude in your help in allowing us to have the gift of children. When everyone else gave up on us, you didn't. You and your staff were so supportive. Because of you, we are now graced with children. Thank you so much for all you have done for us over the years. Not only are you a great physician, but a compassionate human being that cares about all children of the world. Again thank you, we wouldn't have our babies without you."

Fred and Nancy
2002

"Dear Dr. Nemiro. I'm already 4 months pregnant for which me and my husband will be thankful to you till the rest of our lives. You brought the hope and joy back into our hearts. You kept us a family. Thank you. We would like to thank all the ACFS family who were the most loving and caring people we ever met. They made the days after I've got pregnant less painful and less traumatizing with their huge humanity and understanding. Thank you."

Nadya and Iliyan
1999

"Letter written to a patient's previous doctor out of state. Dear Dr. If you recall you were my Dr. for approximately 15 years and delivered both my girls and performed a tubal ligation in 1995 and you were really the best Dr. I called you back in September 2005 trying to get a copy of my medical records because I was considering a tubal reversal and after speaking with you I felt very discouraged when you told me the following: “impossible, I burned your tubes, don't waste your money, you won't even find a Dr. that does that anymore”!! Your opinion was that I was better off having an IVF procedure than wasting my money getting a reversal. I divorced a few years ago and then met this wonderful guy that I am with that has no kids. I investigated the different options that I would have and the tubal reversal seemed like the right thing to do; although I was very discouraged after our conversation. I gave it some thought, I pursued it and got it done in January 2006. I am glad and thankful to God and Dr. Jay Nemiro of Scottsdale, AZ for making my dream of getting pregnant again a reality and wanted to share and inform you that we are almost 6 weeks pregnant after a successful tubal reversal 4 months ago. With all respect- you need to be a little bit more sensitive with your patients as your opinion is irrelevant. The fact is, that tubal reversal is an option and possible. I have heard that its different in every case but let the Dr. performing the reversal determine and give the opinion on whether it is possible or not and please don't discourage your patients. If there is enough tubes to put together, the reversal is an option. Happy mother to be."

Linda
2006

"What a great pleasure it was to meet you! Thank you for your individual attention patience, thoughtfulness and concern. You made us feel so comfortable, calm and important. We are so grateful for your time spent with us. You went above and beyond any experience we have had in any medical setting. We are confident we chose the Best Doctor in our hopes of building/starting a family."

Marc and Audra
2005

"Dr. Nemiro. Everyday I look into my little son's big blue eyes and I thank God for the gift He's given us. But of course, that gift wouldn't have come without your help and care. I remember the first day we met you...you spent over an hour talking to us about our issues and solutions, but also about life and snow skiing! We were looking for a doctor that obviously knew what they were doing, but we really needed someone who could sympathize and empathize with us. We truly felt that after trying other doctors and failing, finding you and your office was a sign of good hope. We completely trusted in your judgment and have our son to show for it. Thank you x 100 million."

Troy and Tandy
1998

"Dear Dr. Nemiro and Staff. We've been meaning to write/send pictures for awhile, but have been quite busy since the birth of our twins. We sincerely want to thank you for all the love and support you gave us throughout this whole process. Dr. Nemiro- when we first met you it was under one of the most difficult times of our life as I was having an ectopic pregnancy which ultimately required removal of my left tube after having already suffered one miscarriage. All this had occurred after 2 prior failed IVF attempts with another doctor. Even though you had never met us, you agreed to perform an emergency surgery at 8 pm without any hesitation. We were terrified and heartbroken during our 1st visit with you due to our unfortunate circumstances but you put our minds at ease and assured us you would do all you could to help. Unfortunately, my tube was to damaged to save and then you had the unfortunate task of having to tell me that my remaining tube was unlikely to ever result in a viable pregnancy. Following the surgery, we were totally devastated and without hope. I felt I didn't want to go on if I couldn't bear children, but you convinced us to give IVF another try with a more aggressive drug protocol than had been previously utilized. We'll never forget the night you transferred our embryos. You told us they all “looked” good but that 2 looked particularly good. We knew from that moment that we were finally going to achieve our dream of having children. The rest is history, we now have two beautiful, healthy babies and we just wanted to express our sincere gratitude to you and your staff. Everyone in your office was always so supportive and compassionate. Even after achieving pregnancy I had weekly, sometimes daily “scares” due to bleeding, during my first trimester. Everyone always took the time to reassure me and give me as many ultrasounds as I felt I needed to put my mind at ease and every time I thought my pregnancy had ended, I was assured my babies were still very much alive and thriving. Thanks again for everything and for helping us along on our journey. Love."

Stephanie and Jay
2005

"Dear Dr. Nemiro. Trying to conceive, after all, time heals and eventually happiness replaces any sadness left. And then I look at our beautiful babies, tears well up in my eyes and my stomach feels suddenly empty. It is hidden behind deep feelings of thankfulness, gratitude and appreciation. As I said before you are the magic in our miracles. We can't think of our babies without thinking of you and I'm not sure the words “Thank you” do our feelings justice, but will say it anyway. Thank you! You have enriched our lives more than you will ever know!!"

Lauren and Mike
1998

"To all of our friends at the Arizona Center for Fertility Studies. During the past months my husband and I have made many many visits to your office in the attempt to conceive a child. As we sat in your office we poured over the books of thank you notes and letters and prayed silently to ourselves that we too would be able to be added someday. I myself truly believed that the day would never come, but here it is! My husband and I expect a child in June, and couldn't be happier. We do not yet know how many yet but just knowing that we are going to have at least one baby next year is enough to thrill us forever. We would love to give encouragement to all those couples going through the fertility treatments or if they are even thinking about it. All the shots, hormones, and surgeries are worth it! Just have the patience, love and understanding. It will all be worth it in the end. Thank you once again. I cannot wait to be able to come into your office and show off my new baby. Your friends for life."

Carol and Scott
1998

"Dr. Jay S. Nemiro. I would like to convey my heartiest thanks to you for caring and encouraging attitude that you displayed towards us. Although things did not work out as we hoped but still your effects were a source of comfort and hope for us. My husband and myself we can never forget your last words on the telephone which came to us as a beacon of hope in our state of utter disappointment. If, by the grace of God, we get our visa the next year, we would certainly come back to you. I wish to thank all of your staff for their love and support throughout the treatment. They understood my feelings well and helped me a lot emotionally to overcome my mental turmoil. I would like to tell you that you and your staff have won our hearts with your dedication towards your work and your sympathetic attitude in that course. I have come back to my normal mental state just because of the way you handled us. I can never forget our stay in Arizona and I certainly hope to see you all soon. Thanking you."

Saman
1996

"Dear Jay and everyone else. We have put off writing this because we just did not know the words to tell you all how much we appreciate all you have done for us. We feel incredibly blessed to be the parents of a healthy 7th month old. Our dreams have come true and we know we wouldn't be here without you. Our road to parenthood was not easy. During our almost 2 years of trying to conceive and our 3 miscarriages, there were certainly times when we doubted we would be successful. We can't tell you how grateful we were that you all realized that the challenges we were facing were not just medical but emotional as well (something that other professionals we had dealt with somehow didn't acknowledge). All the support you all gave us helped so much. You are truly a special group of people and we feel fortunate that we got to share our journey to parenthood with you. Fondly,"

Ricki and Mike
1989

"Dear Jay and Friends. Our baby girl had been everything we hoped for since we started trying for children. Your sophisticated and aggressive approach to our fertility problem was clearly superior to what we encountered with other physicians in the same specialty. Certainly the results speak for themselves. We very much appreciated the interest you took in us and felt that, for once, we were patients and not just business opportunities. If nature still won't be enough to help us with a second child, we will look forward to another try with you and your staff. Thank you for making our dreams come true after our years of disappointment and disillusionment. Fondly,"

Joanie and Scott
1987

"Letter from Dr. Jay Nemiro to his parents at ACFS 5th celebration picnic. As I sit here at my computer, my mind wonders over the countless memories and joys that I have experienced since Arizona Center for Fertility Studies was founded in 1982. The Center was created out of my heart-sung commitment to the emotional, mental and physical well-being of infertile couples. My commitment was to end infertility on the planet by the year 2000. Although that commitment has not altered, the focus has. In the beginning I was driven to be the best and although that produced many babies, it eventually left me a bit empty and after awhile unfulfilled. I began to ask myself, “How long do I want to do this”? Over the last 18-24 months something has shifted for me. I can best describe it out of a question a patient asked me several weeks ago. She was thinking about having surgery to repair her tubes and she asked me if I was good. Without thinking about the answer, I said, “Yes I am, but I have to be, you deserve it”. As I said the words, it hit me like a ton of bricks. How could it be any other way. On the dawn of our 5th Annual Celebration Picnic nothing could be more true. Each and every one of you has given me the profound gift of your trust and intimacy. You have shared with not only me but sometimes the entire staff those fears, guilts, frustrations, and lack of control that you would not dare express to anyone else. You were willing not to look good or strong or in control to have what you cherished more than anything else in the world, a baby. My success over the years has nothing to do with me, but with you. It is all of you that has made ACFS a wild success. For that I am deeply grateful. Having and loving four children of my own, I know what a profound gift children are. Being a parent is truly a privilege and one of the greatest joys and fulfilling experiences of my life. Raising children is rich and wonderful and in many ways, it is our children that give us life. It is for these children, and the true miracle that they are, that a patient five years ago decided to have an ACFS annual celebration to honor those born and unborn children. We are now preparing to celebrate our 5th Annual ACFS Celebration Picnic. Last year we had close to a 1000 people participate, including grandparents and friends. This year our goal is 1500. Although the staff has changed over the last nine years, all of us at ACFS would love to see all of you. Although some of the ACFS staff will not know you personally, all of us profoundly know what you represent, the gift that you give us and to your children, and to the struggle of infertility and the courage it takes to deal with it. This year's picnic promises to be the best yet. All of us at ACFS look forward to seeing all those miracles of love and science."

1991

"Dear Dr. Nemiro and Staff. She is beautiful. Such a blessing and miracle in our lives. Thank you very much for your encouragement and emotional support. We are glad we made the decision to change physicians and continue treatment. You really showed me that you cared about me and my success, despite, the obstacles, and not your numbers. We admire you for that. Our son is the best thing that has happened in our lives. Much love."

Allen and Gracie
2002

"Dear Jay. Approximately one year ago I had ART and now I am sitting here while our beautiful little boy takes a nap. I have put off writing you during the past 3 months because I always got too emotional when I started a note to you. At first I thought it was postpartum hormones. Now I realize that words are difficult to find when thanking someone for a miracle. You were the first physician we met who really seemed to understand our frustration. After too many years of too much disappointment, I had prepared myself (or at least tried) for the possibility of never having a baby. It was scary at first to trust your optimistic attitude. Our first appointment was Jan 28th and exactly one month later I underwent the procedure and became pregnant! As if performing miracles weren't enough, you also tolerated and comforted me during those anxious early weeks of "cautious elation". You have a rare gift of being both a man of science and a caring person who always respects his patients. Your staff is also absolutely great. I was always amazed at how personalized my care and treatment were. Jay, at first I hated your baby bulletin board- it was too vivid a reminder of what I wanted and could not have. I then viewed the pictures as a sign of hope, realizing that all of those babies had mothers who had been in my position. What a delight to now proudly make an addition to the collection of "most wanted babies"."

Melissa and Ken
1988

"Dear Dr. Nemiro and Staff. How does one find the right words to thank you? Not only have you given Mark and I a new and special meaning in our lives; you also gave us courage along the way, showed us warmth, compassion, and encouragement, and you gave us strength to hand onto our dream. There's a camaraderie; a closeness, even in your waiting room. It was the one place I could go, where I truly realized I was not alone. It's hard to believe I'm pregnant now- and with twins at that. What you have done for us and continue to do for many others, has got to be the most wonderful, beautiful thing that one person can do for another. There's just not enough sky to hold all the rainbows we wish for you, today and always. Forever grateful."

Mark and Cyndi
1988

"Dear Dr. Nemiro and Staff. I know you have many, many patients, and it's impossible to remember them all, especially a year later. But I thought you might remember me because I'm in a wheelchair, and I used to always see you downstairs. Anyway, my husband and I wanted to let you know that in January we had a healthy baby girl. She's made us so happy, and we have you all to thank for that. I had a good pregnancy and worked up to the day before I delivered. Thank you again for the wonderful work that you do. Sincerely."

Jill
1991

"Dear Jay. It is hard to believe that 15 months have passed since our son was born. Great times truly do pass much too quickly! When Debbie finally became pregnant on her third attempt at ART, 8 IUI's and many other less radical attempts to achieve pregnancy too numerous to mention (and thankfully remember), the question that you once asked us "Why do you two continue to proceed and to place trust in me after all of the non-successful attempts at achieving pregnancy"? crossed our minds many times. The first and most obvious response that we really wanted a baby, of course. But the mental, emotional, physical, and financial stress of the process made us realize that there was more to our commitment than just our dream to have a child. We believed, and still believe, that you and your staff were truly interested in us, our well being, and most importantly our dream as you could possibly be, and that your commitment to helping us achieve a successful pregnancy was not to be compromised. We will never forget your support and encouragement along the way when things were extremely challenging. We will also never forget your excitement when our son was conceived. Jay, it is hard to answer why we continued along with the process other than to say that we had and have the highest level of trust, confidence and respect for you. We really believed what you told us "it's not a matter of if, it's a matter of when if you'll stay with it". Needless to say you didn't disappoint us. As difficult as the process was, and it was tough, it was well worth every bit of it. We continue to tell friends and acquaintances who face the same challenge that we did to stick with their commitment, and with you. We still believe. We hope that all is well with you and your family. Best personal regards."

Debbie and Curt
1991

"Dear Dr. Nemiro. This letter is certainly overdue, but now that we are settling in a little better with our new baby boy, we have a moment to truly thank you and your fine staff. We could not be more proud, more happy or more full of love for this little boy. As you know, we waited six long years for this miracle. We trudged through every major fertility specialist in the Phoenix and Miami, Florida area before we came to your office. At times, it appeared that we had come to the end of the line with no more hope in sight. A "fertility specialist" in Miami even suggested that we may want to begin thinking about adoption possibilities. Well the almost hopeless came to you and your staff, and you not only gave us hope but the miracle as well. We cannot thank you enough. Every one that we meet and will meet that have the same desires and hopes as us will be referred to you. I know that you have had a lot of these letters sent to you, but we also knew how much we needed to write it. We also know just how much you are involved in helping less fortunate children and we have enclosed a check to be sent to whatever children's organization could benefit from this the most in your opinion. With warmest regards."

Monica and Steve
1989

"Dear Dr. Nemiro. We sincerely appreciate your help in making it possible for us to conceive a child after 9 1/2 unsuccessful years. The life of a couple that is childless is full of frustration, impatience, uncertainty, misunderstanding, and anger. From the beginning of our marriage we have been seeing various fertility doctors with each new phase of experimenting being a new hope to hang onto. But we were let down again and again. With each visit to your office we were again optimistic yet somewhat skeptical because of the years of negative experience. This proved to be a time of great joy as I nearly passed out at work the day that Corrine called me after the pregnancy blood test. It was immediate excitement and ever growing as we could see the heartbeat a few weeks later on the ultrasound. When the haste of everyday life dilutes simple communications, we want to thank you, for your expertise, your technology, and sincere concern for the success of the procedure. We thank God that he has allowed your profession to correct another body function gone awry. Best wishes in your practice and helping others obtain the most basic joy of mankind in having children."

David and Corrine
1987

"Dr. Nemiro. When Paul and I look at the ultrasound pictures of our baby and realize that it's really true that I'm pregnant at last, our gratefulness to you is overwhelming. We both know that you have given us the greatest gift of our lives. You gracefully keep saying that "we did it". But we all know that "we" tried for eight years and were not able to, on our own or with the help of five doctors before you. What a gift you have been given in your life to be able to give couples like Paul and I the greatest miracle of all and to do it with such warmth and understanding and friendship. As you know, Paul and I had decided that this would be our last attempt at IVF or at any other method of trying to achieve pregnancy. We had truly given up hope. But we had both decided before this last attempt that win or lose, even with all of the cumulative frustrations and disappointments, that our experience with you had been the most positive one either of us had ever had with anyone in the medical profession. We felt that you had been our support and encouragement as well as a medical advisor, our friend as well as our doctor. We both believed in and trusted you from the beginning. And thankfully, everyone's perseverance, but especially your expertise and commitment, prevailed. Again, we can't say enough that for all of the joy that ever comes from having a child, we will always feel the greatest indebtedness and gratefulness to you. Without you, I could never have been a mother."

Susan and Paul 1986

"There was a young couple who had everything it would seem Except the fulfillment of their longing and constant dream Oh for a new life- which they knew would bring happiness and joy If they only could have a little one, a baby girl or boy They tried all methods, taken temps and made charts with care Visited doctors; had operations but still produced no heir After four years things were gloomy and both were depressed It even seemed their beautiful relationship and happy marriage regressed Till while watching a news show on a national network They saw a doctor discuss a new process that just might work They made an appointment and after months met Dr. Nemiro Who would become their doctor, friend and to them a real hero He showed such an interest and gave them such hope Even if some of his directions made it hard to cope Such as having a shot at a certain time in the rear Even if it was given in a park they happened to be near As Janet sat wiggling side to side in a waiting room chair Hoping Jode or someone would soon notice she was there Since to her it was urgent and really did matter That she came in with an overfilled bladder The day after Thanksgiving was the day that was chosen To implant the egg, with sperm- and it wasn't frozen They could hardly believe the egg took and it was clear That finally these two would have a baby the very next year What a celebration- the champagne cork sounded like a pistol And who cared there was no real Stuben crystal Janet, David and their medical team saw bubbles so clear Who's ever thought specimen bottles would become so clear As time went on Janet went to see an OB/GYN And they knew it would be a girl whose name was Lynn The months went by- mom got fatter and the baby was born On August 30th very early on a Saturday morn A beautiful baby- never had there been one special as this boy He immediately filled their hearts with love and joy He is so special and really a dream come true And of course Jay, Jode, Jane and BobThe joy is because of you"

Written by a patient's mom about her first grandson
1987